The World According To Bob

Bob Allen is a philosopher and cyber libertarian. He advocates for the basic human rights of men. Bob has learned to cut through the political nonsense, the propaganda hate, the surface discourse, and talk about the underlying metamessage that the front is hiding. Bob tells it like it is and lets the chips fall where they may. If you like what you read be sure to bookmark this blog and share it with your friends.

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You can't make wrong into right by doing wrong more effectively. It's time for real MEN to stand up and take back our families, our society, and our self respect. It is not a crime to be born a man. It is not a crime to act manly.

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Feminist By Mistake

Bob often has a radio playing while he works on construction projects. Dr. Laura comes on after one of the more popular talk radio programs so I end up listening to some of it before I get annoyed with her misandrist feminist whining and turn it off. Dr. Laura frequently goes on an anti-feminist rant, claiming that she is anti-feminist, and blaming feminists for the destruction of families. But inbetween her rants, almost all of her advice to callers is right out of the feminist propaganda and program book. Dr. Laura opposes feminists who promote abortion, but she toes the feminist line on just about all the rest of feminist misandry. Like many women and men who have grown up in a feminist dominated culture, Dr. Laura doesn't understand that most of her "moral" values are feminist dogma. She was taught the feminism as a little girl, from her psycho mother. It was fed to her with her mother's milk, and taught by schools and colleges. She believes that most radical feminist dogma is just "what is right." And that is the problem. It is the same problem that most men have when we begin to understand that feminism is evil. We have grown up with feminist dogma taught to us as "what is right." We are so immersed in feminist dogma that we don't have the perspective to understand what is normal human behavior and morals and what is feminist domination. Many men and women these days, like Dr. Laura, say they are "not feminist" and even go on an anti-feminist rant, but then turn around and preach feminism and attack anyone who has gotten out of feminism. Using Dr. Laura as an example, lets examine the "what is right" feminism that has pervaded our culture and is now the background belief of even most who "oppose feminism."

A woman phones Dr. Laura's talk show to ask for advice on marriage to a soldier she likes. The woman is 18 years old, the mother of a bastard who was put for adoption the year before, and now has found a decent man who likes her. Dr. Laura advises the woman not to consider marriage for 5 more years, until the woman is 23 years old. Dr. Laura tells the woman that she shouldn't marry now because young woman form deep emotional bonds with men, and should postpone marriage, and even dating, until they are too old to form such deep bonds. Dr. Laura is preaching feminism and hurting her caller. Organized feminism decided on opposing marriage as a long term goal, and promoting divorce, by the 1850s. The primary tactics they have always used to oppose marriage are deceptive. Instead of honestly speaking against marriage, feminists tell young women to "postpone" marriage. They don't say, "never marry." They say rather, "don't marry now." Feminism teaches young women to avoid marriage by staying in school to "advance yourself." After finishing high school feminists promote single women going to college, and then getting a post-college career. And all the while, year after year, the young woman's ability to form a deep emotional bond with a man, and to bear his children, is slipping away. Dr. Laura tells women to avoid sex before marriage, but then tells women not to marry, especially while the woman is young enough to form a deep emotional bond and bear children.

A woman phones Dr. Laura to ask for advice because her daughter wants to marry a man who is "controlling." Upon further questioning it turns out that the intended husband will be the man of his home, and the daughter will have to obey her intended husband. After mother and hired feminist gunslinger interrogate the daughter, it turns out that the intended manly husband has used occasional physical discipline when the daughter hasn't obeyed him. Dr. Laura throws a misandrist fit, which her questioning was intended to allow. The mother is told to call immediately for the blue gun thug feminist Gestapo so they can capture and destroy the manly man. A man who has the balls to control his wife is an enemy of violent feminazi like Dr. Laura. He hasn't submitted to the control and domination of females, so he must be destroyed. Dr. Laura frequently advises women to call for assistance from the feminist army when a man has broken any of the feminist hate laws.

Traditional marriage and family, opposed by radical feminism, is supposed to be the goal of young women and their parents. But it is opposed by Dr. Laura and other feminists. Young women are able to form strong emotional bonds with their husband, but Dr. Laura advises young women to wait until they are no longer able to form such bonds before considering marriage. A woman who hasn't formed a strong emotional bond with her husband can easily file for a divorce under feminist "no fault" divorce laws, another tactic that feminists use to destroy marriage and families. Almost half of American children are now bastards because young women of marriage and child bearing age are stopped from marriage by radical feminists such as Dr. Laura. Half of all marriages end in divorce, leaving broken children's lives, because women follow feminazi advice such as Dr. Laura gives. Without a strong emotional bond to their husbands, wives are very vulnerable to any change in emotion or situation, and divorce is touted as an easy way out. Dr Laura believes that she supports strong traditional families, but she advises callers to avoid marriage with strong emotional bonds formed during the primary marriage years. She believes that she opposes sex before marriage but she continually advises the arrest and destruction of young men who seek eligible virgin women.

A woman phones the Dr. Laura show asking what she should do about her husband who doesn't keep as close watch on their children as she does. The woman describes a father who is doing fathering, and fathering is different from mothering. Fathers commonly let the child have more freedom, allow more adventure, give them more time alone. Fathering results in more healthy and successful adults than mothering does, according to every study. Dr. Laura advises the wife never again to allow her husband to watch or take care of their children. Dr. Laura is again spouting radical feminism. The first feminist dogma is the assumption that a mother knows better how to raise children than the father, an assumption negated by a mountain of research. The second, and perhaps the most radical feminist lie is that the mother has the authority to decide whether or not the children's father may have access to his children. Feminists are redefining "family" as "mother and her children." Before feminism it was generally assumed that children belonged to the father, and it was the father who made the decisions about their care. Despite her public claims about "opposing feminism" Dr Laura constantly promotes the feminist domination of families and the relegation of fathers to "sperm donor" status. A non-feminist would have told the wife that fathers always allow children to take more risks but most children survive and grow from the experiences. A non-feminist would have told the woman to obey her husband because he is responsible for her and his children. But Dr. Laura is a radical feminist who preaches mother domination and control of children.

A woman phones Dr. Laura to ask about allowing her son to contact his "biological father." Dr. Laura advises the woman that the young man's father is "only a sperm donor." As a dedicated feminazi, Dr. Laura preaches dividing children from their fathers, and the feminist lie that fathers do not matter to our children. She ignores the facts of biology and advocates adoption as the mother's decision. She preaches against any legal or moral rights for fathers. "He's just a sperm donor," she often says.

A young woman calls Dr. Laura to ask about marrying the man she's been living with. Dr. Laura calls the woman, "an unpaid whore," for "shacking up" with the man. One can't help but ask if a married woman becomes a "paid whore" for "sleeping with the enemy?" To feminazi like Dr. Laura, sex is something that women use to dominate and control men. A woman's sexual affection should be held for ransom, sold to a high bidder, bought and paid for continually by a man. As a dedicated feminist, Dr. Laura ignores the biological needs of women for manly affection and making babies. She rails against marriage for women of biological marriage age, classic feminism. When a young man of marriage age, mid 20s for men, seeks the hand of a young woman, mid teens for women, Dr. Laura calls him a "criminal molester" and advises that he should be destroyed by the blue gun thugs. Dr. Laura often says that women of child bearing age are "too young to decide about sex" even when half of American babies are now bastards born by those very women. Feminism is wrong in so many ways, it hurts children, it hurts women, and it hurts men. Feminism has destroyed families and our whole society. And all the beliefs and programs of radical feminism is being preached day after day by "conservative" women like Dr. Laura who begin their day announcing their opposition to feminism.

Female suffrage is another radical feminist program that has had huge changes in our society. All of the "no fault divorce" and "women's rights" have been pushed through our legislative bodies by women's suffrage. Dr. Laura strongly supports female suffrage, like all women who claim to "oppose feminism." Most men today do too. Most men can no longer even imagine a world not dominated by females. Most women and most men may think they oppose feminism but are so immersed in its laws and dogma that they don't even know what it is. Finding feminism for most people is just like a fish looking for the water, it can't be seen because its everywhere.

Dr. Laura is just a public example. There are a hundred million other women who believe just like her, that they oppose feminism, while they promote and preach feminism to their children and support government adoption of feminist laws. Feminist misandry is taught to every girl child with her mother's milk. Feminist misandry is taught to every girl child in every year of K-12 education. Feminist misandry is taught by whole departments in every college and university in the USA. Most of today's young women believe that, "I'm not a feminist," but every one of them believes feminist dogma and most will pattern her life according to feminist teaching. Most young men are taught the same misandrist dogma by the same teachers. Most men today accept feminist dogma as "the truth" or "what is right."

Bob's advice to young men, and even to young women, is to question all the (well meaning?) advice that elders like Dr. Laura give you. The "truths" and "right" you've been taught is probably right out of the radical feminist handbook. Question everything. Does the advice tell young women to avoid a good marriage and family? Does it make fathers into secondary citizens? Does it reduce men to "sperm donors?" Does it turn mothers into "paid whores?" Does it advise the destruction of young men? Does it prevent the kind of families that are what life is really all about? If you can begin to question what you are being taught every day, you can become your own person instead of another sheep.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

Imagine --

take a belt, whip, fist, club -- and just beat up every woman on this earth.

March 29, 2007 3:59 PM  
Blogger Bob said...

Note to anonymous: Your suggestion sounds really bad. It is, however, much less severe than what is being done now to millions of American men. Men are being beatten to death, shot to death, tormented into suicide, bound into indentured servitude (slavery), and cast into hell hole prisons where they are brutalized daily.

March 29, 2007 9:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Name one man who is currently undergoing persecution.

March 31, 2007 6:06 PM  
Blogger Bob said...

Note to anonymous: Mr. John Baugher is a very public recent example of persecutory hate. Did you see the news report this week about the cross dressing lesbian who was falsly accused and arrested for "rape-hate?" Feminist hate goes on and on. They didn't know she couldn't have been guilty until she was in their hellhole cage.

March 31, 2007 7:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't be too soft on criminals. These guys you defend so much, probably did bad things. And they'd harm YOU if they had the chance.

April 01, 2007 4:43 PM  
Blogger Masculist Man said...

I critisized Dr.Laura on another MRA board and got blasted from nearly everyone there. Everyone seems to be thinking that she is anti-feminist because she says so but I've seen and heard rhetoric before,not only that put her book The proper feeding and care of husbands sounds very denegrating. Too many MRA's are under the impression she gives a shit about us when in fact she doesn't.

April 02, 2007 10:02 PM  
Blogger Bob said...

Note to Masculist Man: I haven't seen Dr. Laura's book. From her description and title it sounds a lot like the National Geographic Channel's "Dog Whisperer." Treat husbands like dogs.

April 03, 2007 7:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dr. L's book Proper Care and Feeding is really tongue in cheek title, not meant to be disrespectful. In fact, her book urges wives to avoid complaining, don't sweat the small stuff, think of his needs.

April 05, 2007 7:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


Have you considered compiling a list of countries and ranking them in order of most to least severe persecution of men?

As you have mentioned, feminism isn't just institutionalized, it's indoctrinated into us, male and female, from birth here in the USA. The odds of throwing it off are slim.

However, there is a flicker of hope in the few brave women who have begun to question the results they are getting with the status quo. Some women are beginning to wake up and realize that a career, an empty house, and a series of uncommitted lovers isn't fulfilling their innate need to bond with a life mate and breed.

Also, did you hear about the man in Oregon who decided that his daughter was not going to be indoctrinated into the ways of teen whoring at school, and grabbed a) the daughter (b) a tent (c) a set of encyclopedias and headed for the woods?

Four years later, they were discovered and "hauled in." Their living conditions were "deplored" but evaluation of the 12-year-old girl showed her to have a normal deep affection for her father, and scholastic ability exceeding 12th grade!

When I heard of this story, I was reminded of you, and figured you would want to investigate and properly venerate this manly man.

April 06, 2007 4:05 AM  
Anonymous C said...

She says one thing and does another.

If you've seen one woman do it you've seen them all.

I will say that any woman that goes to college has permanently destroyed herself and written her own destiny for the next lonely, useless 70 years of her life.
So avoid any woman that goes to college. It's a joke.
I laugh at woman who walk down the halls at college, they aren't worth a glance. They are disgusting and pathetic to me. What use is a woman who wastes all those years in "school" mimicing men and becoming absolutely useless?

Those women are so rude and insulting to be in the presence of.
Always competing, complaining, controlling and attempting to prove something they can never be:
a feminine woman.

There are no feminists because there is nothing feminine about women attempting to be men.

"feminism" = closet lesbianism.

April 06, 2007 7:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dr. Laura is a Jew.

April 08, 2007 4:34 PM  
Blogger Bob said...

Note to Anonymous *April 08, 2007 4:34 PM)
Many of the leaders of feminism have been Jews. Dr. Laura has much in common with feminist leaders.

April 08, 2007 5:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You're right, Bob. She's fairly conservative politically but still rabidly feminist. Unfortunately, most of the conservative female talking heads fall into this category. It's a shame because they're smarter than liberal females, but no social role model for a daughter or traditionally conservative women who want to see a resurgence of the patriarchal-led American family with numerous children.

April 10, 2007 6:32 PM  
Blogger Masculist Man said...

Anonymous April 10, 2007 6:32 PM,

There are two wings of feminism: a left (liberal) one and a right (conservative) one.

April 18, 2007 3:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

In reference to this:

After finishing high school feminists promote single women going to college, and then getting a post-college career. And all the while, year after year, the young woman's ability to form a deep emotional bond with a man, and to bear his children, is slipping away. Dr. Laura tells women to avoid sex before marriage, but then tells women not to marry, especially while the woman is young enough to form a deep emotional bond and bear children.

By your prescription, I avoided college and married when I was seventeen. I was forced to flee for my safety when my husband threw me down on the floor, straddled me, put his hands around my neck, and started choking me while ramming my head into the floor saying he was really going to kill me--all while I was pregnant with our second child. My crime? I refused to go out after midnight to the rear of our building in a dangerous neighborhood and launder a particular pair of slacks he wanted to wear the following day.

So I am afraid I have joined the crowd in urging young women to get the education to support themselves and avoid the dire poverty we lived in when we escaped for our lives.

I guess you'd say he was just being a manly man and disciplining me? And my unborn child?

I also have to wonder--do you believe any woman has ever been raped?

And ultimately, what we are mostly filling our prisons with is drug offenders. They should be reserved for truly violent offenders and the conditions should be vastly improved.

June 19, 2007 10:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Can’t agree with you anymore, Bob. So-called feminists are just one species that attempt to build up their dogma and hegemony over the men. They accuse of male-dominance but they desire to build up female-dominance.

November 14, 2007 11:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So, you're saying it's wrong to find out if you actually love a person before you marry them? That's twisted. People who rush into marriage are the real reason there are so many cases of divorce.

September 13, 2008 11:16 AM  
Blogger Bob said...

Note to the anonymous sow:
LOL. Its so typical of feminazi to twist what was said into a fraudulent straw man.

Feminism is the reason we have so many divorces. Feminism has always worked to destroy marriage. When a female is taught to hate men and eschew responsibility, and then given an option to divorce at every hisssy fit, marriage is doomed.

September 13, 2008 12:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hate men? No. I'm in a happy relationship with one currently. One day it may even lead to marriage but it is not one our priorities and we are taking our time to make sure we don't make any stupid mistakes. We both know we are too young to make such an important decision about our future.

September 13, 2008 6:16 PM  

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