Fault based divorce?

Someone asked Bob about his thoughts on "fault" based divorce. For the past half century females have destroyed their families in huge numbers through use of "no fault" divorce laws lobbied into existence by the feminazi during second wave feminism. They have been a social disaster of unimaginable proportions. But what about fault based divorce?

In the first half of the feminist century, women could divorce by accusing their husband of adultery. Often these accusations were no more true than the "abuse" lies that females now routinely tell to divorce courts on the advice of lieyers. Further, the husband's occasional outside affair or mistress is not a threat to the marriage and should not be allowed as a reason for the wife to destroy the family. I am reminded of French President Mitarand who's mistress and her children came to his official state funeral and sat in reserved seats in the 2nd row, behind his wife and her children. The existence of a mistress has never been a serious threat to a marriage, and before feminist domination was not construed as grounds to destroy the marriage and family. Contrary to feminist dogma, a man's occasional sexual adventures increases his sexual energy which he brings home to maintain the excitement of his marriage bed.

Neither should feminist lies about "abuse" be grounds for divorce. Throughout history of successful families the husband has been responsible for the family. The wife is instructed to be subjugated to her husband. When she picks fights and then calls a gang of gun thugs to beat up and torture her husband the family and the whole society suffers. The so-called "abuse" laws, VAWA, etc., are anti-family hate legislation that is intended to destroy families and to hurt men and children. Lieyers today advise females to lie about "abuse" and "child abuse" to the minions of Satan in black robes of hell in order to rob the man's property and bind him into indentured servitude, slavery, for the next 20 years. Lieyers and agents of Satan in black robes who work every day to destroy familes and hurt children should be eliminated from decent society. The wife who picks fights, or fails to subjugate herself to her husband in other ways needs his discipline and corrections. A good hard over the knee spanking is enough for most females, and it creates love and respect for her husband. If she resists simple punishment then he may use additional punishment as needed.

Bob focuses on the situation when females file divorces because women file 90% of divorces in the US, largely because they are now paid to do so. The first remedy is to stop the incentives for divorce. The first incentive that needs to end is the gift of half, or more, of the family property as a reward for destroying the family. The family needs the house, the car, the kitchen pots and pans, and the savings. If the unfaithful bitch wants to run off with the newspaper boy she should be able to take her shirt, the one she's wearing, and her shoes, and that's all. The husband who is trying to keep the family together should be able to keep the kids and all the family property and assets which are needed to support the family. A huge mountain of data shows that kids who are taken from their fathers by divorcing moms are hurt in every measurable way. Kids who stay with their fathers, even when mom leaves, do as well as being raised by two parents.

We need to remember that marriage is the arrangement for creating children and maintaining a stable home for them to be reared well. The reasons for divorce allowed during the years while the children are growing up need to be very limited. After they are grown the purpose of marriage no longer is important so divorces could be granted if either party no longer wants to maintain the marriage. After the kids have left the home its purpose is finished.

What are possible reasons for divorce during the child rearing years you ask. Serious criminal abuse of the children is one. If hindsight were foresight, Andrea Yates should have been booted out before she killed the kids. Sexual mutilation of children, starving the children, or excessively beating children are also valid reasons. A female who attempts to murder her husband with poison or violence loses her rights to her family and husband. In addition, the moment she bears a bastard, which should be found by routine DNA testing at birth, she has already divorced and violated her husband and family. The former husband has justification to boot the whore out with her shirt and shoes.

In general, neither a female's lie nor the husbands adultery should be grounds for divorce. Neither should the lies females now tell about "abuse." None of those lies should be grounds to destroy a family. Female lies are reason and justification for the husband to exert some physical control on the female, not justification for her to destroy the family. In general the children belong to the father and in case of divorce have a far better chance of success in life living with fathers rather than mothers. Divorce lieyers, gangs of blue gun thugs, CPS family destroyers, and agents of Satan should stay the hell out of a family's affairs. In ancient law including religious and secular laws, before feminism, the husband was responsible for the well being of the family. Part of his authority and responsibility was to protect and care for the wife. He could divorce her if she no longer was satisfied with the marriage or when she was not adequately participating in the marriage. Women are emotionally unstable. They have demonstrated in horribly destructive fashion during the past century that they can not be trusted to maintain marriages and families when allowed "no fault" divorce or even "fault" divorce. For the protection of the children, women should not be allowed to exercise their "PMS" emotions and destroy their families.